It's about story of growth

A lot of people believe that to be loved and to be married are equally the no difference. Consequently, the couple who loves deeply before married will end out of quarrels, fights even divorce after getting married.

For me, loving a person doesn’t require much commitment and usually when someone falls in love with another, he’ll feel that she’s the wonderful person that he ever met. He is attracted by her beauty, or other good characteristics of hers. The story only begins with him and her, two persons.

The story continues as time passes by, the problems arise as more and more people are involved in this relation called love.

When there’s time to get married, it’s no longer the story of two persons; in fact the story involves at least two families. This is the stage which more obstacles come from maybe friends, relatives, money, and more and maybe the children. That’s why a lot of people claim that getting married is the ‘tomb’ of love.

Now, commitments are required on daily life to keep the story alive. Commitments are something a person doesn’t like to do but he has no choice but just to do it. Some of the couples feel that the ‘love’ no longer own up by them, that’s the point where they find the disappearance of ‘love’.

Consequently, a lot of unhappy stuffs happen as the result of those who involves in the story, giving up the effort of searching ‘love’ in the relation which they thought to be ‘dead’.

For those who never give up the hope of searching ‘love’ they can actually find that the ‘love’ is still there. He loves her family members because of loving her. She takes care of his friends because of loving him. They may create ‘love’ maybe with a little bit of surprise or a bit of caring. These, enable both of them to finish the ‘love journey’ which not everyone is able to complete.

For me, a hero in searching the path of ‘love’ is considered brave only if he is able to start and to complete the journey. Most of the people fall in 2 groups: dare not start or refuse to complete. In this case there’s no such stuff as fail to complete as there’s always a choice. What’s your choice?