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Thursday, April 16, 2009
When a girl cries it doesn’t mean she's weak...

If a girl cries in front of u...it means that she couldn’t take it anymore.

If u takes her hand, she would stay with u for the rest of ur life;

If u let her go, she couldn’t go back to being herself anymore.

A girl won’t cry easily, except in front of the person whom she loves the most, she becomes weak.

A girl won’t cry easily, only when she loves u the most, she puts down her ego.

Guys, if a girl cries bcoz of u, please hold her hands firmly, coz she's the one who is willing to stay with u 4 for the rest of ur life.

Guys, if a girl cries bcoz of u, please don’t give her up, maybe bcoz of ur decision, u ruin her life.

When she cries rite in front of u,

When she cries bcoz of u,

Look into her eyes,

Can u see n feel the pain n hurt she's feeling?

Think.

Which other girl have cried with pure sincerity,

In front of u, AND bcoz of u?

She cries not because she is weak,

She cries not bcoz she wants sympathy or pity,

She cries,

Because crying silently is no longer possible, the pain, hurt n agony has become too big a burden to be kept inside.

Guys,

Think about it,

If a girl cries her heart out to u,

And all because of u,

Its time to look back on wat u have done,

Only u will know the answer to it.

Do consider it,

Coz one day,

It may be too late for regrets,

It may be too late to say "I'm sorry"... ***

You may regret it for the rest of ur life.

Maybe in ur life, she's the only one who loves u the most.

Remember this lesson before its too late...
Sunday, April 12, 2009
When a GUY is quiet and is alone,
He's is thinking how good you're, Miss you!!!

When a GUY is lying on his bed,
He is thinking deeply why he loves you.

When a GUY looks at you in your eyes,
He wants to tell you how much he loves you and how important you're.

When a GUY answers "I'm Fine" after awhile,
He is not and feels hurts.

When a GUY keep asking you the same question,
He is wondering why you are lying.

When a GUY hugs you while sleeping,
He is wishing that you belongs to him forever.

When a GUY calls you everyday,
He Miss You and wants your attention.

When a GUY wants to see you everyday,
He cares for you and wants to know how you are today.

When a GUY sms's u everyday,
He wants you to know he is fine.

When a GUY says I love you,
He really means it.

When a GUY says that he can't live without you,
He has made up his mind that you are his future wife.

When a GUY says "I Miss You",
He wants to see you immediately.
Saturday, April 11, 2009
1. Guys hate sluts.

2. "Hey, are you busy?" or "Are you doing something?" - two phrases guys open with to stop from stammering on the phone.

3. Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.

4. Before they call, guys try to plan out a little about what they're gonna say so there aren't awkward pauses, but once he's on the phone he forgets it all and makes it up as he goes.

5. Guys go crazy over a girl's smile.

6. Guys will do anything just to get you to notice him.

7. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend or ex love-interest. Unless they're goin for the let-her-complain-to-you-and-then-have-her-realize-how-wonderful-and-nice-you-are method.

8. A guy who likes you wants to be the only guy you talk to.

9. Boyfriends need to be reassured often that they're still loved.

10. Don't talk about your guy friends to your boyfriend.

11. Guys get jealous easily.

12. Guys are more emotional than they'd like people to think.

13. Giving a guy a hanging message like "You know what?!..uh...nevermind.." would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking. And he'll assume he did something wrong and he'll obsess about it trying to figure it out.

14. Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like.

15. Guys hate asking parents for money to buy girls presents. So they come up with ideas like saving their lunch money for a week. But it never works because guys are always hungry so they end up asking the parents for money anyway.

16. Girls are guys' weaknesses.

17. Guys are very open about themselves.

18. It's good to test a guy first before you trust him. But don't let him wait too long.

19. Your best friend, whom your boyfriend seeks help from about his problems with you may end up being admired by your boyfriend.

20. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don't need to give advice.

21. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.

22. Guys love you more than you love them if they are serious in your relationships.

23. Guys will brag about anything.

24. Guys use words like hot or cute to describe girls. We rarely use beautiful. If a guy uses that, he likes you.

25. Guys think WAY too much. One small thing a girl does, even if she doesn't notice it can make the guy think about it for hours, trying to figure out what it meant.

26. Guys seek for advice from girls not other guys. Because most guys think alike, so if 1 guy's confused, then we're all confused.

27. Any guy could write out a rulebook or advice book for flirting, but no guy can write out a book about relationships.

28. Try to be as straightforward as possible.

29. A guy has to experience rejection, because if he's too-good-never-been-busted, never been in love and hurt, he won't be mature and grown up.

30. If the guy does something stupid in front of the girl, he will think about it for the next couple days or until the next time he spends time with the girl.

31. No matter how much guys talk about asses and boobs, personality is key.

32. Guys learn from experience not from the romance books that girls read and take as their basis of experience.

33. Guys worry about the thin line between being compassionate and being whipped.

34. If a guy looks unusually calm and laid back, he's probably faking it and is spazzing inside.

35. When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl, he really is. Guys rarely say that.

36. When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he's just actually saying, "Please come and listen to me."

37. Guys don't really have final decisions.

38. If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him. It doesn't happen that often, so when it does, you know something's up.

39. If your best guy friend seems to avoid you or is never around when you're with your boyfriend, he's probably jealous and likes you.

40. When a guy looks at you for longer than a second, he's definitely thinking something.

41. Guys like femininity not feebleness.

42. Guys don't like girls who punch harder than they do.

43. A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.

44. Don't be a snob. Guys can be intimidated and give up easily.

45. Everything in moderation. Put on makeup, wear perfume. Just not too much.

46. Guys talk about girls more than girls talk about guys.

47. Guys hate rejection, but they hate being led on even more.

48. Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions and are MAD confusing but somehow are drawn even more to them.

49. A guy would give his left nut to be able to read a girl's mind for a day.

50. No guy can handle all his problems by his own. He's just too stubborn to admit it.

well, an interesting article I accidentally found it. I do agree most of them :)
Thursday, April 9, 2009
Few of my friends were actually joining us for frisbee training and game. I wish to say thank you to all the girls who were willing to come upon my invitation, especially a girl who named Sherilyn.

Well, sometimes life needs a lot of exposures. They're able to further up a person's view.

Nowadays, a lot of people keep watching and very seldom of them participate in any event that they feel interested. For me, if a person never try to do something that they think it's fun or what they think they're really want, it's a waste of life.

A person can't really enjoy 100% without any participation. Please be appreciate with every opportunity to participate something which able to make your life different.
I always ask my brother to join me in every sport that I am interested. However, he doesn't want to join me, not even once.

I am thin but he is fat, erm not just fat, in fact, he is extremely fat....

He always claimed that he is fat so can't really do exercises.

For me, I always wonder, is it because what he said is real or because of he doesn't like to exercise and hence he becomes fat?

I think it's all about attitudes.
Monday, April 6, 2009

A lot of people believe that to be loved and to be married are equally the no difference. Consequently, the couple who loves deeply before married will end out of quarrels, fights even divorce after getting married.

For me, loving a person doesn’t require much commitment and usually when someone falls in love with another, he’ll feel that she’s the wonderful person that he ever met. He is attracted by her beauty, or other good characteristics of hers. The story only begins with him and her, two persons.

The story continues as time passes by, the problems arise as more and more people are involved in this relation called love.

When there’s time to get married, it’s no longer the story of two persons; in fact the story involves at least two families. This is the stage which more obstacles come from maybe friends, relatives, money, and more and maybe the children. That’s why a lot of people claim that getting married is the ‘tomb’ of love.

Now, commitments are required on daily life to keep the story alive. Commitments are something a person doesn’t like to do but he has no choice but just to do it. Some of the couples feel that the ‘love’ no longer own up by them, that’s the point where they find the disappearance of ‘love’.

Consequently, a lot of unhappy stuffs happen as the result of those who involves in the story, giving up the effort of searching ‘love’ in the relation which they thought to be ‘dead’.

For those who never give up the hope of searching ‘love’ they can actually find that the ‘love’ is still there. He loves her family members because of loving her. She takes care of his friends because of loving him. They may create ‘love’ maybe with a little bit of surprise or a bit of caring. These, enable both of them to finish the ‘love journey’ which not everyone is able to complete.

For me, a hero in searching the path of ‘love’ is considered brave only if he is able to start and to complete the journey. Most of the people fall in 2 groups: dare not start or refuse to complete. In this case there’s no such stuff as fail to complete as there’s always a choice. What’s your choice?